Fashion and Beauty

Weekend Outfits

July 27, 2015

This past weekend I traveled to Charleston for my best friend Ashton’s bachelorette party, which was just a lovely time. Charleston is so beautiful and it has been awhile since I’ve spent some quality time with its great shopping and delicious food.

I posted the above photo on Instagram that got a few requests for some outfit details, so I figured I’d let you know wassup.

I snagged this crop top and shorts in Zara while traveling in Spain, but both pieces are sold out now unfortunately. But don’t worry, they have some super similar stuff in stock and it’s on sale right now. Woot. And so are the shoes!

four of us

Similar top / similar shorts / sandals / clutch old, similar here

This is what Take #1 looked like. Snort.

take 1

Ah, the difference of what real life looks like versus what we post to Instagram. 

Here’s my Saturday pool bathing suit combo. I bought this bathing suit top for major sale on Shopbop and paired with my go-to bikini bottoms from J. Crew. Because they are black you’d never know they aren’t actually a set. My own form of magic. 

pool outfit details

top / bottoms / flip flops / nail polish

And then because you can’t go to Charleston and not snap annoying iPhone photos of your food, here’s some of those as well.


Brunch at The Rarebit. Twas quite delicious. This was the special breakfast sandwich of the day — English muffin, two fried eggs, bacon, caramelized onions, fig jam, and Gruyere cheese with a side of potatoes. It was terrific. 

delish drink

Drinks at Husk. This was a “Blinker” — it’s not on the cocktail menu, but you must request it because its amazing. Vodka, grapefruit juice, club soda, St. Germain, and something else that I cannot remember.

cheese plate from husk

Lovely little cheese plate.

All in all, it was a most successful weekend and I loved celebrating my best friend of 14 years. Old friends are the best friends. 

Fashion and Beauty

Save & Splurge: Nordstrom Anniversary Sale

July 17, 2015

Happy freakin’ Friday! Hallejuah. We made it. Congrats.

Today is the first day of the fantastic Anniversary Sale at Nordstrom, and I’ve been waiting for this sale to purchase some new boots for the fall. Boots are a very tricky thing to buy — I really do wear all of my boots all of the time so I don’t mind spending a little bit more money on them, but these “save” options are nearly identical to the more expensive ones. Regardless, they are all on mega-sale and would be great purchases.



Save & Splurge: Nordstrom Anniversary Sale
booties save / booties splurge / boots save / boots splurge


Buying boots in the off-season (and on sale) is a good way to save some monies. If you need new boots, now is the time to buy them. Planning is key. 
Have a fabulous weekend in your new boots.
Home Living

Recycled Wall Plates

July 15, 2015


It’s been awhile since Wilson and I completed any real updating to our little apartment, but this past weekend we decided to be adults and do adult things. Like, do laundry. And change the air filter.

And — hang plates on wallsThe pinnacle of maturity. You know you are an adult when you think, instead of using this to for food, let’s hang this plate on a wall. 

Remember these white plates from my master bedroom wall in Charlotte? I bought them for $5 a piece at Sleepy Poet, my long lost Queen City BFF. They’ve been stuck under my bed for the past year because I couldn’t decide where to hang them.

bed at angle

bedside table

But I found a place. They now flank a map in our living room. And I have to say, they look like they belong.

living room

 I love symmetry and these plates satiate my OCD in the best way possible.



And because I liked the way I’d arranged my coffee table on this particular day, here’s a photo of that too.

So, what do you have in your house that you can recycle to use again? If you buy things you love, you’ll always find a place to put them. Even $5 white plates.

How to Speak Southern

Lowcountry Boil in the Lowcountry

July 9, 2015
up close

The past weekend we hosted some of our best friends for the 4th of July, and we had quite a fantastic time. Savannah is, by nature, a party town, and we did ol’ girl justice. And then some.

Everyone arrived Thursday night, which I assumed would be our “laid back” night where we would go to bed early in preparation for the next day’s festivities.

Not so much.

We stayed out past 3AM — which I never do because I am a grandma old soul — at a local dive bar singing to the jukebox and playing “darts.” And by darts I mean I threw some darts at the wall, none of which hit or stayed on the dart board. Now that is talent. 

Our weekend was extremely celebratory, to say the least, and I absolutely loved it.

No perfect weekend is complete without the ultimate denouement, and ours was wrapped perfectly, or I should say boiled perfectly, in the form of a Lowcountry Boil. With Chef Wilson at the helm, all of us washed and chopped and peeled and then threw the ingredients into a few big pots and voila! We made a Lowcountry Boil, made all the more authentic by the camaraderie and drunkenness that went in to it.

LC boil

This is the type of picture you get when you are trying to balance the camera in one hand and a gin and tonic in the other. But you get the idea.

the spread

The spread. It was nothing fancy, just simple and fun.

up close

The photos leave a bit to be desired I’ll admit, but what’s a gal to do when she’s had a few too many but wants to document the deliciousness in front of her? She takes the pictures anyway, dammit.

 The recipe for our Lowcountry Boil is below, I hope you’ll make it this weekend just as overserved as we were.

Lowcountry Boil Recipe

4 pounds small red potatoes

Pot of water

1 bag of crab boil seasoning

4 tablespoons Old Bay seasoning

2 pounds kielbasa or hot smoked link sausage, cut into 1½-inch pieces

6 ears of corn, halved

4 pounds large fresh shrimp, leave peel on 

2 Vidalia onions, quartered

Cocktail sauce

Bring a large pot of salted water to a rolling boil. Put the crab boil seasoning in the water. Once the water is boiling, throw the potatoes in. Then wait a little bit, (don’t you like how exact I am?) then throw the onions in. Then the sausage and corn.

Once the potatoes are soft and the onions are translucent, drop in the shrimp and let them cook until they are pink and opaque, about 2 to 3 minutes. Drain thoroughly (this step will require two hands, so set your drink down please) and then put into a serving dish. Add a generous helping of Old Bay to the LC Boil and toss so that each part is thoroughly covered. Serve with cocktail sauce.

Serves 12 people

Fashion and Beauty

Investment Piece of the Month: Mario Badescu

July 1, 2015

It’s been quite some time since I’ve given you the scoop on what I invest in. My bad.

Besides my 401k, I do tend to splurge on invest in facial cream. No, I do not absolutely need expensive facial cream but I do love it. And my face loves it back. I take some things at face value. I pun.

Facial creams are a dime a dozen these days, and it is quite difficult to break through the clutter to find the one that works for you. So I’d recommend trying a couple. I’ve tried plenty in my ripe young age, and usually switch what I’m using every six months or so — not necessarily because the current cream doesn’t work, but because I want to try something new. Variety is the spice of life?

The only facial cream I’ve used for more than six consecutive months is Mario Badescu. I was first introduced to my dear friend Mario from this guest post on The SoGood, but I was appalled at the price and therefore did not give him another thought. But then a few months later Mario Badescu was featured on Gilt Groupe, and so I decided to try it. I started with the daily Collagen Moisturizer, the Herbal Hydrating Serum, and the Caviar Night Cream. Now keep in mind the prices on Gilt were almost 50% off so I didn’t spend as much moolah as I would have full price, but honestly, it doesn’t matter. This stuff is the


Mario Badescu Skin Care


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During the winter when my face is particularly desert-like, I’ll wash my face and apply the Caviar Night cream and then the Serum on top of it, which my face just drinks up. You could say this is happy hour for my face. 


After I fell in love with the daily moisterizer, serum, and night cream, I then sprung for the full Anti-Aging Kit and Almond & Honey Face Scrub, and I love both too. The Anti-Aging kit is a pretty good deal — it includes a cleanser, toner, smaller moisturizer, collagen mask (which I put on once a week, much to Wilson’s chagrin) and some cooling eye cream for $30. Not terrible. 


 So if you are in the market for a new facial skincare regimen, Mario Badescu is my go-to, and could be yours too. Your face deserves a happy hour. 

Fashion and Beauty

Cover Ups for Under $100

June 26, 2015

This weekend Wilson and I are going to a beach party with some friends, which is all fine and well except for one problem — I need a cover up.

Bathing suit cover ups are kind of weird. They aren’t supposed to technically cover you up, just generally provide some protection when you are in your bathing suit (which is essentially glorified and quick-drying underwear) when you are not in an acceptable place to be scantily clad, such as your car. That little stretch of walking from your car to the beach can be fragile and cover ups are here to save your day.

Despite their heroic nature, I still strongly maintain that cover ups are weird. And, more specifically, elusive and difficult to find. So, I’ve perused the world wide web to locate a few good cover ups all under $100. Because if you spend more than $100 on a cover up, you need a serious reality check. #contributetoyourroth


Cover Ups for Under $100


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Cute right? And affordable.

Ok ta-ta for now. I’m off to dream of my 5PM wine.

Home Living


June 24, 2015
sunset behind lighthouse

Ah Majorca. Quite possibly one of the most beautiful places I’ve ever been. C’est incredible. 

We stayed at Hotel Esplendido, which was a stunning hotel with amazing views and fantastic decor. Understated and modern, but not annoyingly so. It’s tagline was Hasta La Vista Baby!

There are so many photos from this trip and I kept finding more and more that I wanted to share. So apologies for the extreme amount of photos included below, but I feel like they speak for themselves. Majorca was incredible and you must visit as soon as possible. End of story.

beach view right

beach view left


We rented paddleboards and paddleboarded around the little bay.

clear water

The Mediterranean was crystal clear.

an intruder

Oh hello!

blue things

Some sort of something that washed up on the beach.

crazy hair

incoming train

There was a little train that connected Puerto de Soller, where we stayed, to the nearby town and was just the cutest thing I’d ever seen.

the train

train 2

the room

I absolutely adored our room. I want that wallpaper stat.

room again

It was so cool at night that we kept the doors open to the porch and listened to the quiet roll of the sea all night long. There are no bugs there either. If we left our doors open in Savannah our apartment would become the jungle of no see’ums. 

the view

Our view from the porch.

oh hey

white chairs

These are the chairs outside the hotel lining the quaint street. I want them for my porch!


Our neighbors.

view from room

me and wilson on beach

the four of us

That selfie stick was clutch.

the four of us first din

Dinner with a view.

sunset and wilson

sunrise on porch

One morning I randomly woke up at sunrise and snapped this photo. And then went back to sleep.


How cute are these little boats?

me and wilsie


Lunch one afternoon. Wilson got sashimi — he claims it is the best he’s ever had — and I had some sort of ceviche. It was scrumptious. With a glass of rosé, of course.

maggie and austin

See how orange the orange juice is? Yes I realize how dumb that sounds, just humor me ok? Orange trees grow like weeds in Spain, and Spanish orange juice was on point. So you can imagine how delicious the mimosas were… 


maggie in majorca

mi amor y sunset

the four of us best night

This was my favorite dinner of the whole trip. The food was delicious, our waiter was hilarious, and the company was the best I’ve ever had.

maggie and blanket

There was a chilly breeze blowing off the water and the restaurant gave us fleece blankets.


And because the boys want to be just like us, they wrapped up too.

to the shops


town and mtns

trees and chairs

beach view


sunset from pool

me and wilson in the pool

The infinity pool that overlooked the entire port.


Each night the sun set perfectly behind a rolling hill, providing a breathtaking view. People lined the streets each evening, wine in hand, and toasted the sun as it set.

sunset from our room

sunset from room 2

So I thought looking back at Barcelona photos was bad, but these pictures almost have me in tears. Such a fabulous trip. Spain is the best. You must go and experience its amazing culture. I need a mimosa. Or maybe a xanax. Or maybe both.

On Friday I’ll be chatting about some cover ups since I need one and maybe you need one so come back then. We can have champs together.

Fashion and Beauty

Wide Leg Pants — Save and Splurge

June 17, 2015

So before I show you photos from our time in Majorca, let’s take a pit stop and talk about something very important: wide leg pants. Wide leg pants are a great for dressing up or down, or even wearing to work. While in Spain I did some serious shopping at Zara, and scooped up the below pair of botanical pants — remember when we talked about botanicals — and loved them.

I’ve also been eyeing these very cute Alice & Olivia pants for awhile now. Truth be told, they are actually in my Neiman Marcus virtual shopping cart currently. The only thing holding me back is that damn price tag. But they are on sale for $198, which is very tempting…

Regardless of my inner wide leg pants struggles, you should get some if you are into being perfectly comfortable and chic at the same time.


Wide Leg Pants -- Save and Splurge


save / splurge

 I wore my “save” pants in Majorca and loved them. They need to be hemmed, but I wore them anyway. With this crop topThat crop top has gotten some surprising mileage. 

majorca wide leg pants
 These also have an elastic waistband, which is also super clutch after eating nothing but ham, cheese, bread and gin and tonics for six days. Trouble. 

 Check back in later this week for Majorca photos!

How to Speak Southern

Hello and Barcelona

June 12, 2015
blue lighting at la sagrada

Well hello there! It’s certainly been awhile, hasn’t it? My bad. Let me dust the cobwebs off this blog for a second. I’m not going to say that I’ve been too busy for you guys because the truth is I’ve been both busy and lazy, but I have been busy. But never too busy for you. 

So. The initial reason for my blog abdication was that Wilson and I took a 10-day trip to Spain with our best friends. And, quite frankly, I’m surprised we came back.

Spain is the shit.

We considered ourselves uncultured Americans seasoned travelers as we globetrotted from Barcelona to Majorca to Sevilla. It was a whirlwind of a trip, and certainly the trip of a lifetime. Even though looking back 10 days is certainly not enough time to do Spain the justice she deserves, when we were there, it was as if time stood still. Nothing stood between us and Spain but getting another drink at the bar from a handsome Spanish bartender. Time moved leisurely, elegantly, and we sauntered around Spain as if we belonged. We most certainly did not belong. 

We were on Spain time, and it was truly spectacular. I am going to become a complete and annoying cliche when I wax poetic about Spain and traveling and how important it is to see this extremely gigantic world we live in, but screw it. Traveling is one of those things you must do. It gives you perspective. It humbles you. It makes you realize how absolutely and infinitesimally small you are in the grand scheme of life. You are teeny. Your problems don’t really matter. So move on. 

(I’m talking to myself here)

Not only was Spain spiritually enlightening, it was so much fun. We drank and ate to our hearts’ content. We woke up late and partied late. We really embraced siestas. Y’all, the Spanish do life right. They go to work around 9, take a break for breakfast at 10 (it’s in their constitution that every Spaniard can break for breakfast) then they have lunch, then they leave in the afternoon. Sometimes around 2PM. You know, for the siesta. Yes Spain’s unemployment rate is inching towards 40%, but that’s neither here nor there… 

They eat extraordinary amounts of salty, cured ham; they only cook with olive oil; they stroll around and look disapprovingly upon drunken American tourists; they spend lots of time with their families, eating meals that could last all night and move from location to location. Spaniards do life right. Us Americans have gotten it all wrong. Our Puritan values of early to bed and early to rise and work all day and night until you are so stressed you’re on a double dose of Xanax are so screwed up. Mr. Puritan, I want to smack you upside the head. You are really, really dumb. We should do as the Spanish do and start livin’ la vida loca every day and every night.

Who’s with me!?!

Oh Spain was so great. Going through these photos was similar to taking a bullet. But, the other thing that I haven’t mentioned already that traveling teaches you is appreciation. I was really, truly happy to be back on Southern, American soil when we returned. There’s just something about the South that creeps into your soul and stays there, reminding you that even if you leave it, it never leaves you.

Here’s a taste of our delicious time in Spain. Hope you enjoy.


 I loved the architecture of the city. Even though it’s a historic, old city, the streets are wide and clean, and there aren’t any skyscrapers. Reminded me of D.C. a little.

wilson and i at cafe emma

maggie and austin

 Our dear friends Austin and Maggie, the perfect travel companions.

view w la sagrada in back

 The view from our hotel. That is La Sagrada Familia in the distance, which has been under construction for quite some time.


 I figured out how to do a panorama on my phone. I’m about two years late on that. 

hungover breakfast

We thought we spoke excellent Spanish. Maggie ordered a bagel and cream cheese. This is what she was served. We ate it all. 

street view

bike lane

three amigos on beach

One afternoon we went down to the beach in Barcelona and drank rosé. It was magical.

rose on the beach


Great tapas place.

how cute

The pictures I took at night were all from my cell phone so the quality isn’t as great, but how cute are they?

us two

bar selfie

Bar selfie.


This was the best paella I ate the whole trip. Mmm it was so delicious.

gaudi house up close


blue lighting at la sagrada

This was inside of La Sagrada Familia, and the light was just amazing. It poured in through the stained glass windows and illuminated the cathedral in a wash of rainbow-colored light, reminding me of a kaleidoscope.

la sagrada four amigos

la sagrada

stained glass windows

Isn’t that just amazing?

stained glass 2

green yellow lighting

So beautiful.

christopher columbus church

I can’t remember the name of this one but we learned some history here. It was built for the people, by the people, and therefore is a lot less ornamental and gilded.

half zip mafia

My three amigos.


This was in one of the food markets in the city, which basically shit on every farmer’s market in the U.S. They don’t have “farm to table” specialties over there because everything actually is straight off the boat or from the farm.

more market

fish at market


strange meats

This was totally gross but very interesting. On the bottom left in the container is a sheep’s brain. Above the brain and to the left are bull testicles. Um. In the middle is stomach from either a cow or a sheep. On the right is a tongue. YES A TONGUE. LOOK AT HOW BIG IT IS.

grains at the market


We ate churros dipped in real chocolate. It was absurdly good and I will never eat another churro again because it will never taste as good as these did.

boat ride cliff

One day we chartered a sailboat to cruise the coast of the Costa Brava to see Spain from the Mediterranean side. It was so gorgeous, and I got so seasick. Holy crap I was so nauseous.

landscape from boat

from boat landscape from boat 2 little white house

12 century castle

austin and champs

magz and champs

We took our cava very seriously.

four amigos on a boat

so seasick

By this time I was holding onto Wilson for dear life. The high seas are not for me.

fishermans lunch2

Finally we docked and ate the most scrumptious “fisherman’s lunch.”


It is an understatement to say that I was sad when we left for Barcelona, but I had no idea what waited for me in Majorca, which ended up being the most amazing place in the world. I’ll share those photos next. Stay tuned…

How to Speak Southern

Investment Piece of the Month: OTB Fine Art and a Giveaway!

May 15, 2015

Happy Friday!

Today, in solidarity of my fellow women on the move — these women in particular are on the up and up I’ve partnered up with a baller company called Outside the Box Fine Art to bring y’all an awesome giveaway. Outside the Box Fine Art is a brilliantly designed service that makes collecting fine art interactive and accessible. I loveeee going to museums and looking at art, but I can embarrassingly honestly say that I’ve never been inside an art gallery. Actually I take that back. I went in one once with my parents when I was little in Charleston. Booyah I’m cultured. 

But I digress. The way Outside the Box Fine Art works is you join the membership, pay a yearly fee, and receive one piece of custom fine art each month. The pieces range from oil paintings to prints to sculptures, and vary in shape and size as well. As you may have guessed, this month’s Investment Piece of the Month is art. Something you will have forever, if you find yourself in the financial position to afford a piece of fine art, make sure it’s legit. Collecting beautiful pieces of art over time is so much fun — every piece comes with a story and a memory, and you can pass the pieces on to your children. If those lil ankle bitters are lucky. 


How cute are they!? Founders Mary Hull Palmer (left) and Molly McDowell (right) pose in celebration of their straight brill idea. Brill is short for brilliant. Get with it. 

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The art is sourced from 10 Southern artists who work year-round to create unique pieces of art for OTB members.

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And now for the part you’ve all been waiting for… the FREE STUFF! Enter the raffle below to get a chance to win a free Solar Etching on Paper created by Tom Nakashima (shown above, love those glasses boo) titled “Devil Came Down to GA.” And no the painting wasn’t named after me and my move to the peach state. The etching was created in 2014 and is worth $200! We so fancy. 


Such a cool piece of art. Enter the raffle below to become its lucky owner!

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**The post was sponsored by Outside the Box Fine Art, but all ideas, writing, etc.etc. is my own.